I think people just want to spread their own misery..."why should they be the only one that is unhappy?" right? These people need a reality check---look at yourselves, take a step back. Spend your time spreading happiness instead of misery and you will find yourself happier. Do things for other people, get out more and volunteer, get counseling. People are inherently evil and only through the grace of God can we be anything close to good. Evil is evil and there are some of you out there that are just plain cruel. You hate that people make you feel like crap but what are you doing? Think about it....why be what you hate? Or is that why you hate it...because it's what you hate about yourselves?
Don't fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God's wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It's wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life.